Womens brains designed to concentrate multiple task at a time.

Women can Watch a TV and Talk over phone and cook.

Men - Single Process

Mens brains designed to concentrate only one work at a time. Men can not watch TV and talk over the phone at the same time. they stop the TV while Talking. They can either watch TV or talk over the phone or cook.

LANGUAGE

Women can easily learn many languages. But can not find solutions to problems. Men can not easily learn languages, they can easily solve problems. That's why in average a 3 years old girl has three times higher vocabulary than a 3 yeard old boy.

ANALYTICAL SKILLS

Mens brains has a lot of space for handling the analytical process. They can analyze and find the solution for a process and design a map of a building easily. But If a complex map is viewed by women, they can not understand it. Women can not understand the details of a map easily, For them it is just a dump of lines on a paper.

CAR DRIVING.

While driving a car, mans analytical spaces are used in his brain. He can drive a car fastly. If he sees an object at long distance, immediately his brain classifies the object (bus or van or car) direction and speed of the object and he drives accordingly. Where woman take a long time to recognize the object direction/ speed. Mans single process mind stops the audio in the car (if any), then concentrates only on driving.

LYING

When men lie to women face to face, they get caught easily. Womans super natural brain observes facial expression 70%, body language 20% and words coming from the mouth 10%. Mens brain does not have this. Women easily lie to men face to face.
So guys, do not lie face to face.

PROBLEMS SOLVING

If a man have a lot of problems, his brain clearly classifies the problems and puts them in individual rooms in the brain and then finds the solution one by one. You can see many guys looking at the sky for a long time. If a woman has a lot of problems, her brain can not classify the problems. she wants some one to hear that. After telling everything to a person she goes happily to bed. She does not worry about the problems being solved or not.

WHAT THEY WANT

Men want status, success, solutions, big process, etc... But Women want relationship, friends, family, etc...

UNHAPPINESS

If women are unhappy with their relations, they can not concentrate on their work. If men are unhappy with their work, they can not concentrate on the relations.

SPEECH

Women use indirect language in speech. But Men use direct language.

HANDLING EMOTION

Women talk a lot without thinking. Men act a lot without thinking.

Having a Best Friend

A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face.

The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand “Today my best friend slapped me in the face”.

They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone “Today my best friend saved my life”.

The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, “After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?” The other friend replied “When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it.”

Moral

 Do not value the things you have in your life. 

  But value who you have in your life

WHY TO VISIT TEMPLES

WHY TO VISIT TEMPLES ? 

(Scientific Reason)

There are thousands of temples all over India in different size, shape and locations but not all of them are considered to be built the Vedic way. Generally, a temple should be located at a place where earth's magnetic wave path passes through densely. It can be in the outskirts of a town/village or city, or in middle of the dwelling place, or on a hilltop. The essence of visiting a temple is discussed here.

Now, these temples are located strategically at a place where the positive energy is abundantly available from the magnetic and electric wave distributions of north/south pole thrust. The main idol is placed in the core center of the temple, known as "*Garbhagriha*" or *Moolasthanam*. In fact, the temple structure is built after the idol has been placed. This *Moolasthanam* is where earth’s magnetic waves are found to be maximum. We know that there are some copper plates, inscribed with Vedic scripts, buried beneath the Main Idol. What are they really? No, they are not God’s / priests’ flash cards when they forget the *shlokas*. The copper plate absorbs earth’s magnetic waves and radiates it to the surroundings. Thus a person regularly visiting a temple and walking clockwise around the Main Idol receives the beamed magnetic waves and his body absorbs it. This is a very slow process and a regular visit will let him absorb more of this positive energy. Scientifically, it is the positive energy that we all require to have a healthy life.

Further, the Sanctum is closed on three sides. This increases the effect of all energies. The lamp that is lit radiates heat energy and also provides light inside the sanctum to the priests or *poojaris* performing the pooja. The ringing of the bells and the chanting of prayers takes a worshipper into trance, thus not letting his mind waver. When done in groups, this helps people forget personal problems for a while and relieve their stress. The fragrance from the flowers, the burning of camphor give out the chemical energy further aiding in a different good aura. The effect of all these energies is supplemented by the positive energy from the idol, the copper plates and utensils in the *Moolasthan*am / *Garbagraham*. *Theertham*, the “holy” water used during the pooja to wash the idol is not
plain water cleaning the dust off an idol. It is a concoction of Cardamom,*Karpura* (Benzoin), zaffron / saffron, *Tulsi* (Holy Basil), Clove, etc...Washing the idol is to charge the water with the magnetic radiations thus increasing its medicinal values. Three spoons of this holy water is distributed to devotees. Again, this water is mainly a source of magneto-therapy. Besides, the clove essence protects one from tooth decay, the saffron & *Tulsi* leafs protects one from common cold and cough, cardamom and *Pachha Karpuram* (benzoin), act as mouth fresheners. It is proved that *Theertham* is a very good blood purifier, as it is highly energized. Hence it is given as *prasadam* to the devotees. This way, one can claim to remain healthy by regularly visiting the Temples. This is why our elders used to suggest us to offer prayers at the temple so that you will be cured of many ailments. They were not always superstitious. Yes, in a few cases they did go overboard when due to ignorance they hoped many serious diseases could be cured at temples by deities. When people go to a temple for the *Deepaaraadhana*, and when the doors open up, the positive energy gushes out onto the persons who are there. The water that is sprinkled onto the assemblages passes on the energy to all. This also explains why men are not allowed to wear shirts at a few temples and women are requested to wear more ornaments during temple visits. It is through these jewels (metal) that positive energy is absorbed by the women. Also, it is a practice to leave newly purchased jewels at an idol’s feet and then wear them with the idol’s blessings. This act is now justified after reading this article. This act of “seeking divine blessings” before using any new article, like books or pens or automobiles may have stemmed from this through mere observation.

Energy lost in a day’s work is regained through a temple visit and one is refreshed slightly. The positive energy that is spread out in the entire temple and especially around where the main idol is placed, are simply absorbed by one's body and mind. Did you know, every Vaishnava(Vishnu devotees), “must” visit a Vishnu temple twice every day in their location. Our practices are NOT some hard and fast rules framed by 1 man and his followers or God’s words in somebody’s dreams. All the rituals, all the practices are, in reality, well researched, studied and scientifically backed thesis which form the ways of nature to lead a good healthy life.

The scientific and research part of the practices are well camouflaged as “elder’s instructions” or “granny’s teaching’s” which should be obeyed as a mark of respect so as to once again, avoid stress to the mediocre brains 

Tooth decay

Kissing can aid in reducing tooth decay. This is because the extra saliva helps in keeping the mouth clean.

After You Quit Smoking… The Benefits

Do you know that after you quit smoking everything about your health, the health of those around you, the health of your child and your pet begin to improve immediately ? And did you know that there is not one known benefit derived from continuing to smoke?

Better health is the most significant benefit that a smoker can hope to get from quitting.
Within 20 minutes of quitting :

·         pulse rate drops back to normal

·         blood pressure decreases

8 hours later :

·         oxygen levels in bloodstream increase to normal

·         levels of carbon monoxide in bloodstream return to normal

After 24 hours :

·         chances of a heart attack start to markedly decrease

In 48 hours :

·         All nicotine will have left the body and sense of smell and taste are returning

Within 72 hours energy levels have increased and the bronchial system starts to function normally.
Within a year the risk of heart attack has dropped by half.
In 5 years after quitting cigarettes the risk of having a stroke is the same as that of a non-smoker.
And after 10 years of staying quit, the risk of lung cancer is the same as that of a non-smoker.
After you quit smoking, the health of those around you at home and at work is greatly improved and risks of there getting diseases related to the effects of second-hand smoke are drastically reduced.

The freedom from cigarettes and cigarette smoke is yet another benefit of not smoking. The smell of smoke in your house, clothes, hair, hands and breath will be a thing of the past. And the budget that was always set aside for cigarettes can now be a saving to go into something more useful and substantial.

These are all some of the great benefits that you can know and experience only after you quit smoking. It is worth every effort, so put your mind to it…quit.

Help Quit Smoking

Kicking the smoking habit is not at all easy, in fact it is said to be easier to kick the cocaine or heroin habit. So help quit smoking is something the smoker wishing to stop may need in his efforts to quit. This is because nicotine, the active drug found in tobacco is highly addictive and the smoker becomes physically and emotionally dependent on it through repeated and persistent use of cigarettes.

1. It all begins with your making a positive decision that you want to stop smoking. Set a date and keep to it.

2. Enlist the support of your family, friends, co-workers and your doctor. Basically let them know of your intentions just to keep them aware especially because you may become cranky and irritable in the initial days of quitting.
3. Enroll in a smoking cessation program. Hospitals, health clinics, community centers and even some employers offer this facility. Support groups such as Nicotine Anonymous have been known to give very valuable help to many. Go along and get help quit smoking.
4. Get advice from the doctor on Nicotine Replacement Therapy (NRT). In case he finds that you need to stop cravings and the withdrawal effects of stopping he may recommend the use of NRT gum, patches or sprays. In case the withdrawals are more severe and because of such conditions as depression he may put you on prescription medicine such as Bupropion or Chantix.
5. Some people have used methods such as hypnosis and acupuncture and it has worked successfully for them. These might be worth investigating.
6. It helps a lot to stay away from smokers, smoke-filled rooms such as bars and events where smoking is all around you. Even in your house, remove things like ash-trays, lighters, matches etc permanently.
7. Stay focused and determined, remember the more days you put in, the easier it is going to be to stay stopped.

Take heart, many have quit successfully.

Find help quit smoking, no matter how old you are stopping it can help you live longer and be healthier. Ex- smokers enjoy a higher quality of life with fewer diseases, and this, you too can enjoy.

Quit Smoking Support – 5 Steps To Quit

If you have decided to stop smoking, congratulations! You have made a good decision. One of the things you will find useful and available is to get quit smoking support. It definitely increases your chances of stopping.

The smoker is increasingly discriminated against and so put under immense pressure to quit. But more than that, health risks, smoking diseases and resultant deaths to the smoker and those around him are adding to this pressure to quit.

Many smokers want to kick the habit and have found that cessation of smoking is not easy. Not only did it take time to get hooked, but nicotine, the active drug in tobacco is very addictive and the user has become dependent on it physically and psychologically. But take heart, many have tried quitting and succeeded, so can you.

Here are some steps to take in getting quit smoking support:

1. Be of maximum help to yourself by being very clear that you want to quit and the exact date on which you have set to stop. WRITE down your reasons, pro and con, why you choose to stop and keep these repeatedly fresh in your mind. You know best what is best for you and this will carry you through. Be determined.

2. Get the support of family, friends and workmates. It is important that these people who are closest to you are aware of your plan. Let then know.

3. Consult with your doctor in case you could use some stop smoking aid like Nicotine Replacement Therapy (NRT) as found in gum, patches or even medications. These may be necessary to deal with cravings and withdrawal symptoms.

4. Many other qualified professionals also offer quit smoking program and it is OK to use them. Psychologists or counsellors can offer sound advice or even therapy if needed.

5. Join a support group of other smokers trying to quit or ex-smokers who are trying to stay stopped. For example Nicotine Anonymous and several other which are available even on-line.

Finally it is also OK to use any of the above in combination as you seek your

quit smoking support.

AND have no doubt, you will succeed.